Wednesday, October 08, 2008

THE MOSTEST!


Tomorrow would have been my Grandpa Cox's 89th birthday. Ever year when this date approaches, it makes me reminisce about the great memories I have of him and what an amazing & incredibly spiritual person he was. He was always such a great example to me. He showed me that if you work hard, you can accomplish all that you want. He taught this to my mom and thus she taught it to me. He also never wavered on his faith. He showed me and all around him how important Christ was in his life, by being like him through his Christ like actions.

Grandpa had an incredible vegetable garden. I remember him working in his garden, in his blue coveralls and his wide brimmed safari hat. He would find bugs on his plants and showed us how to pop their heads off. He didn't use pesticides to kill, just his two fingers. I loved going out to the garden with him, he would always let me pick some fresh peas and carrots, just so I can eat them while we walked along with him. He had a very long walk way, (well it wasn't that long, but it seemed that way because I had shorter legs) that was lined with an incredible array of grapevines. Every year we would get together to harvest the grapes, strip them from the vine and spread them out over Grandpa's homemade fruit dryer. (an old screen). We would come over periodically through the next couple of days and his back porch was full of shrivelled up grapes. We even did this with the apricots from his huge apricot tree. Mmmmm, nothing was better than his fresh raisins and dried apricots. I would eat so many that I would get sick. But that is a memory and taste I will never forget.

One of my most favorite memories was, after a long walk in the garden on those hot St. George afternoons, we would go down that long path along the grapevines, which he called the "ICE CREAM ROAD" and head right into his bedroom. In his bedroom was a standing freezer filled with Vanilla, Neapolitan, and Maple nut ice cream. There we would pick out the ice cream of our choice, I would usually go for the Neapolitan and he would go for the Maple Nut. From there we would head for the kitchen, grab a couple of cones and scoop ourselves some yummy ice cream. We would just sit at the table and enjoy the cones and the great company. My favorite ice cream to this day is Neapolitan and Maple Nut.

Grandpa was amazingly smart. He would get his globe of the earth out, a flash light and show us how the earth rotated, why the seasons were so different because of the tilt of the earth, and how the sun shown differently as the earth rotated. He was always showing us new thing, how things worked and most importantly why. I remember hearing stories about him, how he fixed a helicopter, even though nobody thought that was possible in the dinky town of St. George.
But my most favorite memory of my dear grandpa was his ability to get down with the grandkids and play with us. He drove us around in his wheelbarrow, as we sat on top of the fresh grass clippings. He played "Sail Around Big Hawk" with us until we were laughing so hard that we were sick. He would play little tricks on us. For example, he would say, "I bet I can jump higher than the house." Of course we all took the bait, there was no way he could jump higher than the house. So he would take the littlest leap and would say, " PAY UP." But of course we would argue that he didn't come close to jumping higher than the house. All he would say was that the house couldn't jump therefore he jumped higher than the house. Another example of his playfulness was when we would get to eat with them at dinner, and he would always challenge us that we could not open our mouths to eat without bending our elbows. Which was very true and we eventually got the joke after many attempts.
Last but not lease by any means. He had a couple of sayings that our family cherish and we will always carry with us and pass on. My most favorite was he would always try to one up you on how much we loved each other. He would say I love you and we would reply we love him more, and he would of course reply back that HE LOVED US THE MOSTEST. It became a game with him and everyone to say "THE MOSTEST" before anyone else said it. Finally when our little visits would come to an end, much to our dismay. He would scoop us up and say, "Take your time leaving, but hurry on back."
I am so grateful to be able to have such great memories of my Grandpa and so grateful that I had such a great man for a Grandpa. I will always cherish his memory and pass it down to my kids. So they will know what a great man he was.
THE MOSTEST GRANDPA!

6 comments:

Brandon Doyle said...

Ah, it all makes sense now! Our dear Sharlene would always write: "The Mostest, Mom"

Ah, light bulb moment, it makes perfect sense.

I always enjoy visiting Grandma Cox. She is amazing, she has really accepted me into the family just like everyone else.

I like her quote on her door: "Take your time leaving, but hurry back." Now I know where she got it from.

A great tribute to Grandpa Cox.
Great post!

Kristen said...

That was a nice post, Steph. It's weird to think how much time has already gone by since he passed. Thanks for the reminder of all the funny memories. You got most of mine too, but you forgot to write what grandpa would tell you eating raisens would do. I didn't like raisens and he always tried to get me to eat them. He said "Come on, it'll put hair on your chest!" And also, remember the parakeet knocker that they had on the door at the old yellow house. I loved going to visit at the yellow house because I got to knock on the door by pulling that little string. We had some great memories with Grandpa, that's for sure.

cmhd said...

Thanks, Steph, for a wonderful tribute. I remember most of those things too, with much fondness. (I didn't live nearby, so I don't think I ever got to ride on grass clippings in the wheelbarrow...) But everything else you talk about brings back such memories of my own. Isn't it funny that there are 20-something odd versions of the same memories alive and well today? :) We are all very lucky to have him as a Grandpa! My favorite time down the ice cream road was when Grandma & Grandpa came to Oregon and took me & Em back with them. We stopped somewhere in rural nowhere, and got peach ice cream to go "down the ice cream road" with. To this day, I can't eat peach ice cream without thinking of them both.

Love, Courtney

Emily said...

That was awesome, Steph. I read your post and could picture perfectly in my mind some of the same things that you did. It brought back some very fond and wonderful memories. We do have a wonderful grandfather don't we? Thank you SO much for taking the time to write these things down. Love you.

greenthumbjan said...

Dear Steph,
Word spread quickly that you had posted a tribute to my Father, and your Grandpa. He was all that you said he was, and so much more!!! How I cherish the life he and Grandma Cox made for their family, the memories they gave us, the truths they taught us! How I love and miss him! I am so thankful that "Families are Forever!" Thank you for writing these memories down for all of us to treasure. I hope all will take the time to print this tribute and place it in your journals so that you (and your children and your children's children) will be able to remember/know Grandpa and Grandma Cox for many years to come! We will all be better Parents and Grandparents because Grandma and Grandpa Cox perfectly modeled for us these roles! Love and appreciation to you for putting into words that which we all feel in our hearts. Love, Janice C. H.

mom said...

Stephie,
You are such a special soul to remember my sweet papa, he loved his family and each and every one of them individually. Ditto on all of it and to each of his posterity, the mostest--Chal Doll